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SEVENTY per cent of men and 30 per cent of women view pornography online – and it only becomes a “major problem” when taken to extremes, a study says.

The research, on how porn affects people’s work, finances and relationships, is being led by Dr Gomathi Sitharthan at the University of Sydney’s Graduate Program in Sexual Health.

It is like any other addiction that people can develop.  Most people can drink a glass or two of alcohol, or maybe even get drunk now and then, but its not a problem.  But alcoholics, all they can think of is there next drink when they are actively drinking.

Porn is like that, most men, and now a third of the women, can view porn occassionally to stimulate their sex life.  They might even have a movie marathon once in a while, but life goes on and daily bills / work / chores get done.  It is nice to see studies that show porn for women in a positive light.   I love my job and looking at couples making love all day.  Most of the time, it is just a job and it doesn’t really stimulate me. (I’ve seen a lot over the last 10 years).  But every once in awhile, a story, or a picture, or a clip from a movie will really get my juices flowing.  And my husband benefits as I skip down the hall to his office and invite him for a tryst. 

So the more women who enjoy porn the better I say.  And I’m glad I’ve had a blog featuring links to quality online porn for women for them to view.

Read the full article at xBiz here.

I was contacted by a woman from Harpo Productions about being on the show, but sadly received the email to late, and they had already taped it.  But today, the episode airs on Oprah.  It feels good to know that women watching porn is now accepted enough that even Oprah will talk about it on her show.  One in three women are watching, and given the number of people to my blog, and my sites, I know that there are a lot of other women out there like me that enjoy watching porn.  Porn for women is here to stay, hurrah!

So tune in and watch today….and remember to keep your Eyes  Wide Open.

Although I work in Porn, write this blog, and have all kinds of adult sites online, I don’t work per se in the sex industry.  In other words, I don’t get naked in front of a camera.   If you do, however, then visit this article and drop her a line, picture, or phone message.  I think it is a wonderful idea for her to go an exchange info like this.  From what I’ve heard, women that do get into the sex trade in India, or pose for photographs are really stigmatized.  Be nice to show them that it isn’t like that in the rest of the world.  Click here for the entire article.

What surprised me though was Theresa Flynt, VP of marketing for Hustler video said that women are 56% of the business at her company’s video stores, and the female audience is increasing.  That is great news, it is wonderful to see that the stigma regarding women watching porn is diminishing.

The article is long, but very good, and well worth reading.  Check it out here.

They call it porn creep…that porn references are starting to creep into main stream marketing.  I think it should be porn running full tilt with sissors in this ad, as the porn references are not very subtle, and never ending.

I can remember going into stores to buy various porn magazines years ago, being embarassed about it.  Especially being a woman and buying it.  Thankfully, nothing like this happened to me.  I’m sooooo glad for the internet.  I can go and view porn without some guy looking at me like I’m some weirdo because, heh, I happen to like looking at naked men.

It will be curious to see if more and more commercials start referencing porn.  Now if they would just mention one of my sites, I’d be real happy.

It features different woman having sex (or trying to have sex) with this guy.  I notice on the tour they don’t show his face…I wouldn’t either If I was humiliated the way he is.

Reminds me of the man who took my virginity.  I had dated a few guys, and not going all the way, and looking back I realize they were very well hung.  But the guy I actually went all the way with was a big guy, over six feet, but his penis had to be less than 4″ long.  I ALMOST told him the first time I saw it, “is this a toy?”  Needless to say, waiting to have sex with him for the first time was less than satisfying.  Makes me wonder if he hasn’t gained weight, and he’s the “Jack” at this site.  (Thank GOD my husband of today would NEVER be on a tiny dick site, lol)

Anyways, its different, so if you want to see how a man with a really small penis has sex, check out the site My Tiny Dick.

The 21 year old appeared on the Tyra Banks show who grilled her on how she could be a woman in porn. Yet Sasha Grey seems to be poised and ready to take on the questions, pointing out that its a business, and she seems to treat it that way.

I don’t know if I could have ever acted in a porn movie. For one thing, I didn’t have the body. I’m short and curvy, not leggy, and sex with a stranger doesn’t really turn me on.

But, having said that, I definitely would have gotten into being a web cam girl if the internet had been around when I was in my 20s, and made a lot of money doing so. To me, that would have been a safe way to flirt and be sexy while making a lot of money. (I know web cam girls that are making 6 figure incomes…wish I was).

I just don’t get some peoples take that think women who end up in porn were abused, unhappy, or have some grave emotional hang-ups that need years of therapy after doing hardcore movies. Most women I’ve met that are in the industry are about the exact opposite of that. They realize they can make money with their assets (their bodies) and treat it like any other buisness. Many when they get older expand out into either producing their own films or developing their own movie label, like Sasha Grey is.

The only drawback I can think of being in this industry is my mind is constantly in the gutter. I take almost everything I see or hear and filter it through this porn lens in my head. For instance, a friend of mine abbreviated black jack as BJ on her facebook blog, and I had to really think what the heck BJ could be in a casino…other than blowjob. It makes for some embarrassing moments when I’m talking to someone who doesn’t know I do porn, and they say something I take the wrong way, and I have to try and figure out what they are saying, in a non-adult context and not laugh out loud at them. But if that is the worst of my hang-ups, I can live with that.

Anyways, check out the article for a good read.

I’ve seen my income drop since late October. And this causes a trickle down effect in my home town. I can’t afford to go out and eat as often. We really watch our WalMart shopping expenditures. (Heh, its the only gig in town to shop at). Dollars have been taken out of the local economy, because I’m not making as much as I used to.

Now think if some of the huge companies are also seeing losses, and how much less that has put into the economy, and I can see how this would have an effect. Lets face it, a $12 billion a year industry is going to have a major impact on the economy in America.

I like what Flynt said:

But the industry leaders said the issue is a nation in need. “People are too depressed to be sexually active,” Flynt said in the statement. “This is very unhealthy as a nation. Americans can do without cars and such but they cannot do without sex.”

“With all this economic misery and people losing all that money, sex is the farthest thing from their mind. It’s time for congress to rejuvenate the sexual appetite of America. The only way they can do this is by supporting the adult industry and doing it quickly.”

Our husband and I have noticed this. We are working 12 hour days trying to get our income up. Heck, it is 10:00pm, and I’m still working and yet to kick back and relax. I look at naked pictures all day, and stressing out over bills has us getting down and dirty a lot less often then we used to.

I have a hard time believing this will ever be granted, but as one small timer who would like to open a paysite, and would LOVE to have the capital to do so, just let me know how and where to sign up…I’ll be there!

What started in Japan as a gay romance genre has found its way overseas thanks to the internet and a wide fan base. Yaoi is a comic book phenomenon on male homo-erotic romance stories that are written for women by women and is also referred to as Boy’s Love. The stories themselves often center around the lives of male students and their relationships to each other and older men. Many Canadian women have recently shown great interest in this genre and have joined its growing online community.

…Yaoi categorizes itself based on its female authorship and readership. Many question how women can relate to these homo-erotic love stories. This may have something to do with the relationship between the two male participants of yaoi storylines who represent a pseudo male and female relationship. There are two roles that are fulfilled in these romances: the seme (“to attack”) and the uke (“to receive”). The uke is often characterized with a youthful innocence with feminine traits. Some argue that when women write these stories they are placing themselves under the guise of the uke. In this way they can live the ideal relationship through these characters. What about the seme? This character is idealized as the perfect man. In the eyes of those who write and read these comics, the seme represents what men should be. But at the end of the day they often become untouchable because they belong to their male counterparts. The seme and uke represent the dichotomy between the masculine and the feminine, youth and experience. What makes them and their stories attractive is the oppositions they represent which often leads to conflict, and how they are able to solve these issues because they manage to fit together.

It is a very interesting read, and something I’ve never heard of before. I will explore it more and post about it in the future.