Tue Feb 06, 2007
Keep in shape the sexy way
It seems like other countries have the best news. Today's article that caught my attention was posted in the UK's People magazine that says if you are bored with the gym for workouts, get in shape doing exercises like striptease, belly dancing, burlesque, or pole dancing. I can just see my husband's reaction with I state, "don't mind me, I'm just installing this pole in the living room to get some exercise."
Actually, I can see where any of those would work. One of my FAVORITE shows I've seen in Las Vegas is the show Crazy Girls. I'm not into women, but WOW is that erotic. There is one act where a woman comes out in a trench coat and like an old style german uniform cap, and REALLY works a pole to Madonna's tune, "Human Nature." I'd LOVE to be able to do that, she ended up climbing that pole and hanging upsided down with just her inner thigh muscles. Oh yea, you'd be in killer shape to do that.
Belly dancing too would be great. So is Hula. I lived in Hawaii 18 years, and since most hula is done in a partial squat position, you get rock hard thighs, plus it tones up your waist good. Should have kept that up.
So if you are getting bored with your workout and its only Febuary in the new year, then try getting sexy...who knows? You might lose weight...AND get your lover away from the TV long enough for some hot sex afterwards. ;)
Sat Feb 03, 2007
This woman loves to watch porn
After my discussion with my sister on watching porn, I loved seeing this article on PR Inside about British pop star Lily Allen who admits she loves to watch porn on TV. She has this to say about it:
"I watch porn on TV whereever in the world I travel to, because the language of love is universal. But I admit, I'm not a fan of the "sick and twisted" Japanese Blue movies."
She also reveals, "When I travel around the world there often isn't anything to watch on TV, especially when they don't speak English. But watching porn is fine as it doesn't need words. It's sort of universal.
It is so refreshing to see someone famous, AND a woman, admit that she loves to watch porn. I'm not the only one! ;)
Tue Jan 30, 2007
What do women like in Porn?
I had a discussion with my sister today about porn on the internet. It started with talking about how her cable tv bill is always more than they figure it would be, because her husband would order the adult package, which gets you 6 channels for 3 hours of porn for about $20. I told her for that price, she would be better off purchasing a membership to a site for $30, and get to see all the movies all month, not just for 3 hours.
It lead into a discussion on wether she would watch porn by herself, and she admitted she probably wouldn't. She'd watch it with her husband, but not alone. She as asking me "is there really a lot of women looking for porn on the internet?" I replied, "absolutely." I said I love to look at porn (why I have the job I do) and if I wasn't in a relationship, I'd seriously consider setting up a webcam of myself. Plus I'd have paid memberships to a few sites. Many a time when I was living alone, I masturbated to porn movies.
We then got talking about what type of porn do women like? Me, I like romantic movies. With foreplay and cunnilingus. I like hardcore action too...and close up shots. Group sex, even gangbangs turn me on. They are not something I would participate in, but I think for women it is the thought of doing something that is erotic...sometimes more so then actually doing it.
I also have what would be called a "dress up fetish." I LOVE boots. High heeled shoes. Leather, latex and femdom clothes. Whips. I'm not into bondage, or acting like a femdom, I just like their clothes. I think Celeste in underworld had one of the coolest outfits a woman could wear. Yummm. And I like guys in leather and boots too.
I know ladies that run sites for women, like the gals that run the site For The Girls say that they don't like pics or movies where the chicks are wearing impossible high heels to bed. And there are, I'm sure, other ladies that feel that way. Me, I think it is sexy as hell and a turn on.
That is what makes the internet so cool. I can find pics and movies like I like. My sister and her husband can find what floats their boat. A turnon for one may be a turnoff for another....but I can guarentee that each will find a site somewhere that has their turnons and not their turnoffs.
What do women like in porn? I really think it could be almost anything.
Tue Jan 09, 2007
Pornography has its benefits
I really found this this article interesting about Pornography has its benefits. In a nutshell they found that:
The incidence of rape in the United States has declined 85 per cent in the past 25 years while access to pornography has become freely available to teenagers and adults. The Nixon and Reagan Commissions tried to show that exposure to pornographic materials produced social violence. The reverse may be true: that pornography has reduced social violence.
This doesn't surprise me at all, and I believe pornography and erotica provide release for people that used to think that they were the "only ones" that had a particular fetish. With widespread connection to the internet, people are finding that they are not only alone, but they can find others who share their fetish and either discuss it, hook up, or live it out with another via webcam, icq, etc.
Take my site Sexy Wet Men. When I first shared with my hubby about this fetish, I know he just didn't get it. Although, he was definitely willing to "act it out" for me. ;) But I'm sure there are a lot of other women out there (and Gay men too) that enjoy looking at men wet and slippery with soap.
What really annoys me though is you are not going to hear about this study in mainstream media. They are too busy trying to say that it is bad for you, and is degrading society, etc. etc.
I think we should all be allowed the freedom to express ourselves through erotic art and pornography. Just my 2 cents.
Fri Jan 05, 2007
The Feminist Porn Awards
In June of last year, Canada hosted the first ever The Feminist Porn Awards, honoring female erotic directors revolutionizing porn. On the website Good For Her, they give the reasons for the awards as:
"Women and couples deserve good porn so Good For Her decided to establish these awards to recognize the filmmakers who are creating woman-positive porn that represents sex as fun and good for women too."
I am ALL for that! I'm so sick of the proliferation of websites that seem to degrade women, to see how far they can "push the envelope" in extreme porn. I'm glad that institutions are recognizing that women (and couples) want to watch good hardcore porn without all the bs.
Candida Royalle was presented with a Lifetime Achievement Award for her pioneering work in women's erotica. Candida Royalle has produced such movies as Rites of Passion, Sensual Escape, Urban Heat, Stud Hunters, (one of my favorites) My Surrender and more.
Winning the award they had to show women were receiving their fair share of the pleasure in the movie. Not just there to satisfy their male co-stars. Women also had to be substantially involved in the production of the film either as cinematographers, producers, or directors. Finally, they had to expand the range of sexual expression for women. No more 70's porn movies where the woman says oh yes, oh yes, over and over like a broken record.
If you would like to read more about the awards, visit Good For Her an online store full of movies and toys for women to celebrate their sexuality.
Thu Jan 04, 2007
Came Across an Interesting Site Today
My Sex Secrets which promises to teach you how to have the greatest sex of your life, and fuck like a pornstar.
This site is run by Erica who filmed with her partner over 50 sex position videos so that you can learn positions you never even thought of to spice up your sex life. The part I liked was this:
Women - How to achieve simultaneous orgasm during intercourse.
It almost seems that if something has to do with female pleasure, particularly sexual pleasure, it just hasn't been deemed important. Why? Prudery about women's sexuality? Who knows!
Lack of interest in women's sexuality? Shameful! Whatever the explanation, this new discovery is a big step forward in understanding the clitoris and its nerve structures.
Why this matters - Clitoral vs. vaginal orgasms!
There are many women who defend the existence of two sorts of orgasms, though some sex "experts" (usually men, I've noticed), deny absolutely there is any difference.
And if these two sorts of orgasms are actually the same, how is it only a minority of women achieve vaginal orgasm through vaginal intercourse while most need their clitoris stimulating directly to get there? Would most women be able to reach orgasm through intercourse if only their partner could go on thrusting for longer?
All orgasms are not the same! Clitoral Vs Vaginal.
When you read about massive, prolonged orgasm for a woman, it's the G-spot that's doing it. A G spot orgasm is a wave of bliss, of spiritual energy, of electricity, passing through every cell of a woman's being.
There are no clear peaks and orgasmic contractions as there are with a clitoral orgasm. Instead there is a wave of bliss which moves upwards from one high point to another, and which can go on for as long as you care to keep up the stimulation.
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